Especially in the GTA area there are tonnes of different varieties of games. most of them are simple walk-on skirmish green vs tan games while there are others that are geared more towards the milsim crew. And kit dont really matter except for some of the more intense milsim games (i.e. the Vietnam games run outta LZ Woodstock, some of the WW2 games or some of the modern era games). Hell for my first few games I ran around wearing a cadpat fishing vest.
If I was banging all of them, I'd be a manwhore. At the moment, I'm just an opportunist.