this might sound retarted and maybe you've thought of this, but I didn't for a whole month
WHen you click the link to the age verifier's page with teh list, don't click the pm link, actually copy the username and pm them, I think they made a lot of linking mistakes cuz for the waterloo and ottawa pm links, they all were wrong. When I actually used the username to pm, I got replies instantly.
^JUST IN CASE don't hate if you thought of this already :P
and if you did, remember these ppl have lives too!!