Knyte: Isn't it enough that he's apologized, offered a full refend +shipping + tax rebate AND admitted he was wrong? He's already suffered enough. All this bad press cannot be good for a business. Please don't drag this on any longer.
Vlad: I commend you for admitting your mistake but it still does not change the fact that you lied/misled Knyte about the quality of the BDU and the material. Everyone is human and everyone makes mistakes. I think this would have been a lot easier for you and Knyte if you had offered to pay shipping and promised a refund at the very start.
Both: I think both of you became very immature towards the climax of this argument, calling each other names and such but please just forgive each other. Accept the refund and go on with your life.