To be honest, I have to say that I'm a little envious of the position OP (and others) find themselves in.
Where I live (and play) we have about 8 players with guns. My community (St. John's, NL) is not that small, 250,000 people, but we still only have a handful of players.
I would say there are 2 of us who are truly interested in MILSIM and we both look forward to the day when we can say "jeez, nobody's interested in MILSIM anymore"....fact is, nobody is to begin with. So what do we do? We try and play as MILSIM as possible. It's not the best, but it's really all we can do. Fact is we enjoy playing airsoft and we enjoying playing MILSIM. So we play airsoft when we can, and MILSIM insofar as it's possible.
I'm not trying to QQ here or try and get you guys to feel sorry for us. I'm just trying to put things into perspective a bit.
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