Then simply show up to games, and learn the game better than him. Then beat his ass.
No favorites; read a lot.
One thing; I've found that women learn faster because they listen to advice. They also tend to play smarter and use their brains.
If you dont read the Information provided, you will get flamed as solidly as the rest. If your boyfriend is here, how about you name him so we can educate him in social graces?