Maybe that's not what he thinks at all. Maybe he thinks you two need some time appart. Maybe he's feeling crowded and just needs a Sunday or two a month to just 'hang out with the guys'. Maybe he feels you're too needy and you should get some friends and hobbies of your own. Maybe I'm full of shit and don't know squat about your relationship.
Seriously though. Just get a gun and show up at a game without telling him. What's he going to do? Send you home.
As for advise. Just keep shooting in his general direction.