You seem to have a good grasp on things. My only recommendation would be to go for a chest rig as your first "basic" vest. Something like the Condor Recon. For the love of milsim avoid the condor crossdraw and similar "vests". Despite the apparent value they are not very adaptable. You will get much more utility out of a chest rig in the long run.
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