Haha, maybe my inability to actually hit people has shielded me from people picking fights with me for overshooting them. But more seriously, I write off "fights" about overshooting, as just an overreaction to pain. And I've never heard of people legitimately yelling at someone because they're being too intense.
Was this at a proper game, or a walk-on skirmish event? I haven't bothered playing a skirmish at any place other than TTAC3 in well over a year.