I actually found the community really helpful.
although I would do my research first, and if I don't understand it, then I will ask.
this worked out pretty well for me so far, nobody yet criticized me for asking anything yet.
But I do know sorta what you are talking about. Some guys seems to be way to deep in their belief and us as new players might not understand. But they have more experience so I usually just take it with a grain of salt and research the methods or stuff they suggest.
TBH, the "google" reply is everywhere, this is not the only place it happens. I usually would include a keyword to search for to people if I was going to give them that "go google it" comment, because I'm lazy and many others are too lol..