As a host, a parent and an occasional player.
->Host me...I have no interest in taking on the liability for a minor other than ones I spawned myself.
->Parent me...I love my kids, the rest of yours well that's your headache.
->Player me...I get maybe 3-8 times a year to go out and play. a day without kids, wife or other responsibilities. This is my time to hang with my friends, catch up on things and shoot. If I wanted to be around children that day, I would have stayed home. *
*keep in mind there will always be exceptions to this through vetting and personal experiences with some.
Be safe not just with yourself, but those you play with. If you are reckless with other peoples safety then you will leave.