Wow. I love how some people think it's all about them. Like they have a magic fucking right to play airsoft at any game regardless of what kit they have.
The host is the one that determines the standards. If I wanted to host a game requiring everyone to be in proper BDU's, no highcaps, etc., I can do it, and it's your privledge to play there. Not your fucking right. How dare you expect the host, and the rest of the players that actually meet the requirements, to lower their standards to accommodate you. Some games have low standards. Most don't. Either meet the standards or don't play.
"Someone in a Prius tried to race me at a stop sign the other day. I couldn't believe it. I had him for the first 100 feet or so but I can only walk so fast."