Speaking as the original poster, I have been out to a few games and it was far more fun that I could have imagined. The airsoft community is very very friendly.
TWAT has a field in Brampton and that was a blast. The guys there are super nice. There was only one other guy to show up without "fatigues" (BDU).
The TTAC3 game was amazing. After the first 30 mins my arm hurts from holding up my CQB so I switched to my side arm. Seriously, there is no greater joy than hearing someone scream "awwww, you shot me in the c$#k". Its downtown though. Would be cool to carpool the next time.
The beatings will continue until morale improves